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It would be a sad situation if a member visited the minister or met him somewhere and the minister did not know who this person was. It would show that the pastor and teacher was seriously remiss in his obligation to visit the members, to become acquainted with them and their life, their struggles and their joys. We are not referring now to the impossible situation where one minister saw one thousand or more members entrusted into his care. Only visiting those who were ill or had special difficulties would already more than occupy his time available for visits. In a normal-size congregation, however, a minister should be able to acquaint himself with the families and their condition.
No one can expect him to sense it when someone is ill or when there are special difficulties. It is the duty of the members to inform the minister if they like him to pay a visit, as much as it is his specific duty to visit them. Already in 1568 it was stated that "all who are bed-ridden because of illness shall inform the minister of their illness through the elders and the deacons."
No one should expect a minister to read from the Scriptures or to pray with the member every time. It is relevant here to quote from a decision taken in 1574: "It is also the task of the ministers, if this is necessary, to call upon the Name of the Lord at the bedside of those who are ill." Note: "if this is necessary." Much will depend on the circumstances and the course of the conversation. A minister is no "prayer-dispensatory." When there are many members who are ill and when there is an abundance of other work, it may be necessary to ask the elders to assist in visiting the sick, as long as it is kept in mind that these visits belong to the specific duties of the minister. In olden days it happened often that special "comforters of the sick" were appointed, mainly for the work in institutions or aboard ships. Such practice was not encouraged as it tended to obscure the fact that it was the task of the minister to pay these visits wherever they were needed.
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